Name Day on your registry

Add nameday to your wedding registry.

If you’re changing your last name after the wedding, put Name Day on your registry. A guest gives it with their own words on the card, and you get the complete My New Surname plan for everything that comes next. Nothing private goes on the registry.

$39 once, paid by the guest. Your future last name never appears. No subscription. Nothing about your plan is ever shared with the giver.

Why it works

You remove the awkward question before anyone has to ask it.

Putting Name Day on your registry says, yes, this is part of the life I’m planning.

Your guest never has to wonder whether a name-change gift is presumptuous. You already chose it. They add the personal part.

  1. You choose the giftYour listing confirms that you plan to change your last name. No one has to assume.
  2. They add the thoughtYour guest writes their own message and chooses the envelope. Their words, not ours.
  3. Your details stay privateYour future last name, documents, accounts, and plan answers are never part of the registry or the gift.
  4. You use it when you’re readyThe plan waits until the name change becomes the next thing you want to tackle.

How to add it

One listing. Add it to the registry you already use.

Name Day isn’t sold inside these registries’ own stores, and we don’t claim a partnership. Zola, The Knot, MyRegistry, and Joy each currently document a way to add an item from another site. Follow the current instructions for the registry you use.

Registry listing example
Name Day registry product image: the Name Day wordmark and an open forest envelope with a card addressed to Maya
Name Day by My New Surname

A personalized wedding gift: a card with the giver’s words, and inside it your complete name-change plan.

$39
  1. Create your listingProvide your email, first name, and state. The kit gives you a title, price, description, square image, and private guest link.
  2. Add it as an outside itemPaste the link into your registry’s “add from another store” tool, then add the image, title, and price from the kit.
  3. A guest makes it personalThey land on a short page with your name already on the card, add their words, and pay. Nothing about your plan reaches them.

Registry by registry

Where the outside-item tool lives.

Their labels change from time to time. Follow the current prompts in your account.

Zola

Use Zola’s Add to Zola option from Manage Registry and keep the direct store link, rather than a cash equivalent. A guest purchases on Name Day, then can return to Zola to mark the gift purchased.

Current Zola instructions

The Knot

Use The Knot’s browser button while viewing the Name Day listing. The Knot says purchases made outside its registry are not tracked.

Current The Knot instructions

Zola, The Knot, MyRegistry, and Joy are their owners’ trademarks. Name Day uses the outside-item tools each registry offers to couples and does not claim a partnership with any of them. Instructions checked September 7, 2026; labels and tracking can change.

Questions

Before you add it.

Does the registry show my future last name?

No. The listing carries your first name only. Your future last name, and everything that shapes your plan, is entered privately by you after the gift is opened.

What does a guest need to give it?

Nothing private. They write their words, choose the envelope, and pay $39. Nothing about your plan is shared with them.

What if my state isn’t covered yet?

We cover 20 states today. If yours isn’t one of them, we stop before personal details or payment rather than let a guest buy something that cannot be fulfilled. We do not collect your email there.

Ready when you are

Make nameday part of the registry.

A few minutes to create the listing. Your guest handles the personal part later.

Name Day registry listing

$39paid by the guest

  • Square product image and descriptionincluded
  • Private guest linkincluded
  • Complete My New Surname planincluded
  • Private details on the registrynone